Shake Up Dessert

So you’ve picked the always-reliable dinner date. Great choice!


But instead of just sticking to your usual restaurant, ordering the same go-to meals, and chatting about your weekly schedule, why not turn it into something a little more unexpected and a whole lot more fun?


Here are a few playful ways to turn your dinner date into a memorable experience:

  • Order for each other without telling your partner what you picked. It’s a fun trust exercise and often leads to some surprising (and delicious) results.
  • Share everything instead of ordering separate meals. It turns the dinner into a more interactive and connected experience.
  • Close your eyes and point to a random item on the menu for a spontaneous surprise.
  • Ask your server what they recommend and order their favorite picks—it’s like getting an insider’s secret menu.
  • Order based on the colors you’re wearing—it’s silly, creative, and a guaranteed conversation starter.
  • Splurge on dessert—try ordering one of every dessert on the menu and take turns rating each one together.
  • Sit side by side instead of across the table. Hold hands, people-watch, and whisper sweet or funny observations.
  • Play pretend—give each other new names and act like you're on your very first date. Flirt, ask questions, and relive that “getting to know you” energy.
  • Go all out—dress to the nines, hire a driver or rideshare, and turn an ordinary night into something red-carpet worthy.


The goal is to break the routine and create fresh moments together. When couples fall into the habit of doing the same things, it’s easy for the excitement to fade.


By adding a twist to your regular dinner date, you open the door to laughter, connection, and those butterflies you had in the beginning.


A little creativity can go a long way in keeping your relationship fun and full of life!

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